This is not so much a topic of bad funeral cause it was the events after the service that I felt made for a bad funeral. My husbands ex wife came to the memorial service (divorced 22 years ago). We were married 17 years. After the service the ex wife had photos taken of her in the center with their children. The children are all 30+ years old. I was very upset over this! I was not in any of these photos. I would like to know if others feel this was appropriate behavior or not. Their relationship was amicable at best.