Sending Funeral Flowers

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Traditionally, flowers are a way to represent growth, new life and movement forward. The natural beauty of flowers at a funeral and at the home of mourners brings a sense of warmth and comfort to the environment.

Today, flowers are not mandatory, but they are one way people express their love for the deceased and concern for members of the family. Flowers can be ordered from a florist and delivered to the funeral home or residence.

Funeral flowers are generally categorized by their function; here are a few of the more commonly used arrangements to avoid any confusion when ordering:

• Wreaths – These are circular floral arrangements, which represent eternal life.
• Floral arrangements – Any type of floral arrangement, from cut flowers to basket and container arrangements.
• Sprays – These are arrangements that allow viewing from one side only.
• Casket sprays – These are usually organized by direct family members and sit on top of the casket.
• Inside pieces – These are the items placed inside the casket, such as small floral sprays.

Sometimes Flowers are Not Appropriate

There are instances when flowers are not appropriate. Such as when the family requests that donations be made in lieu of flowers. Although flowers are freely accepted by many religions and cultures at funerals, it is worth remembering that there are some which do not traditionally receive flowers such as the Jewish and Islamic faiths. Jewish law has always demanded immediate burial – within three days – so flowers were never deemed necessary; fruit and food baskets have always been sent instead. To this day it has never been customary to send any flowers, although they are not forbidden and some Jews have begun sending them. At Islamic funerals some people send flowers and some don’t. It is, however, common to place individual flowers on graves along with palm branches and other greenery. Refer to the Funeral Customs section for more information.

Choosing the Right Flowers

There are no particular types of flowers or colors that should be sent at funerals or homes of the bereaved, although white lilies do represent peace and red roses are renowned for expressing love. There are of course many favorites, which are frequently sent, but if the deceased always loved being in the garden and had a favorite flower and color, it would obviously be very comforting for the bereaved to receive an arrangement of such flowers.

Types of flowers and their colors can send more specific messages. Here is a guide that will help determine if your choice of flowers is saying what you want it to say:

See related topics:

What to Say / What to Do
Offering Condolences
Memorial Donations
Sending Thank You Notes

Go to Learn About Funerals — Index of Topics.