Funeral Etiquette

From what to say to what to wear and what to do, we've got you covered.

Whether you are planning a service for a loved one or paying respects to a friend or co-worker, funerals can be socially and emotionally challenging. Especially during a sensitive time, funeral etiquette can feel like an insurmountable set of unspoken rules. Our funeral etiquette pages can help.

We cover everything from appropriate attire to what to say when offering condolences to navigating different service formats. We’ll offer insight into how you can be respectful and supportive of the grieving family while honoring the memory of the deceased.

The information in our guide will help you navigate difficult situations with confidence and compassion.

Our tips and advice will help you navigate difficult days if you are mourning and introduce you to the customs and courtesies associated with attending funerals, visitations, and memorials.

Proper Funeral Etiquette: What to Say and Do

What to Say & Do When Someone Dies

What to Say & Do When Someone Dies

How can you best support family or friends who have just lost a loved one?

Get Tips on Offering Condolences
Attending a Funeral?

Attending a Funeral?

Get tips, do's and don'ts to avoid embarrassing situations.

Learn the Proper Etiquette at a Funeral
What to Know about Making Sympathy Meals

What to Know about Making Sympathy Meals

There is a list of questions you should know the answer to before you start cooking.

Learn About Preparing a Sympathy Meal

Get our downloadable Funeral Etiquette Guide in PDF format.

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