After Me Frequently Asked Questions
The Funeralwise After Me Planner and Organizer is a tool for end-of-life planning. It is designed to help people organize final wishes, vital documents, funeral preferences, and legacy information.
With the After Me, you can plan both online and with a physical organizer kit. It’s designed to simplify the process for individuals doing it themselves, reducing the burden on loved ones later.
Planning with After Me may be new to you. Consequently, you may have questions. Below are some of the questions we hear most often. If you don’t see your question or would like more information, please contact us at support@funeralwise.com.
After Me Frequently Asked Questions
The After Me Planner and Organizer is a complete do-it-yourself end-of-life planning tool from Funeralwise. It combines easy-to-use online planning software with a physical organizer system to help you gather, document, and store your final wishes, vital documents, funeral preferences, personal information, financial details, and legacy messages—all in one secure, centralized place. Planning ahead provides peace of mind for you and enormous relief for your family. Without a plan, loved ones often face emotional decisions, guesswork about your preferences, and logistical challenges during a difficult time. By documenting your funeral choices (burial vs. cremation, service type, music, readings), vital info (accounts, passwords, contacts), and personal messages, you ensure your wishes are honored exactly as you want. Best of all, you spare your family from making tough choices during a difficult time. They’ll also be able to find the information they need to carry out your wishes. Many people find it empowering and surprisingly comforting to take control now. A will and an advance directive address legal and medical matters. Still, they often don’t cover funeral preferences, personal legacy details, or practical everyday information (such as digital accounts, insurance policies, or where essential papers are kept). The After Me Planner complements those legal documents by providing the whole picture: your funeral vision, cost estimates, personal stories, final messages, and the organization of supporting documents. It’s a user-friendly, all-in-one DIY tool explicitly designed for end-of-life wishes—not a legal replacement, but a practical companion to make everything easier for your family. With the full After Me Planner and Organizer, you receive the physical organizer kit (end-of-life storage bag/case, Guide to Funeral Planning e-book, Word to the Wise guides, checklists, forms, and accessories for securely storing documents). You also get premium online access to the After Me online planner. You can plan entirely online, entirely on paper, or combine both—whatever suits your style. Your data is protected with industry-standard security measures (see our full privacy policy at funeralwise.com/about/privacy for details). You control access completely. You decide if and when to share your plan (e.g., with a trusted family member, advisor, or executor). Plans are stored securely online for 24/7 access and updates. Nothing is shared without your explicit permission. In the physical Organizer version, you store sensitive documents yourself in the provided storage system. Yes—absolutely. One of the most significant advantages of the After Me Planner is flexibility. You can log in anytime (24/7) to edit, add, or change details as life evolves—new accounts, updated wishes, different preferences, etc. Your plan stays current because you remain in control. You choose how and with whom to share access. Many users designate a trusted person (family member, friend, or executor) and provide them with login credentials or instructions for the online portion. We refer to these trusted individuals as “plan guardians.” For the physical Organizer, store it in an accessible, secure location and let them know where it is (or include instructions in your plan). We recommend informing at least one plan guardian that you have a plan and where/how to find it—this simple step makes a huge difference during a time of grief. The full-featured After Me Planner and Organizer (with premium online tools + physical kit) is a one-time purchase. You get lifetime access to update your online plan as needed—no recurring fees. Getting started with the After Me Planner and Organizer is easy. You have many options when planning for end-of-life. The After Me Planner and Organizer stands out among end-of-life planning tools for its focus on funeral preplanning. We combine this with the practical organization of vital information, rather than keying in primarily on legal estate documents. This makes After Me particularly strong for people who want to ease the funeral and immediate post-loss burden on their loved ones. The After Me complements legal estate planning; it isn’t intended to replace it.
Funeralwise has been a trusted, independent resource for funeral and end‑of‑life planning since 2008, helping millions of families plan with clarity and peace of mind. Our experts have decades of experience, so we understand what families really need when it comes to final wishes and practical details. We’re here to give you honest, practical tools so you can plan wisely and reduce stress for your family.
The online planner starts with the Quick Plan. This gets you going right away. Next, you can expand into more detailed sections as you choose.
The goal is simple: reduce stress and burden on your loved ones by giving you control over how your wishes are communicated and executed.
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