
While we receive many questions related to funeral planning, there are several that we encounter on a regular basis. With that in mind, we’ve compiled the top 5 questions we hear. We’ve listed them below, along with a summary of our answers. To help you explore these questions about funeral planning further, we’ve included links to sections of our website with more detail.
Planning a funeral can be difficult. Whether you’re making arrangements after the loss of a loved one or preparing in advance for yourself, the process can be overwhelming. That’s because it involves emotional decisions, financial considerations, and logistical details that most people don’t think about until the need arises.
How much does a funeral cost?

Questions about the cost of a funeral are by far the most common that we receive. The answer may be a bit complicated. The actual cost of a funeral depends on several factors. Among these are location, the type of service you choose, and your personal preferences.
According to the National Funeral Directors Association, the average cost of a traditional funeral with a burial in the U.S. ranges from $7,000 to $12,000, including the casket, service fees, and burial plot. Cremation tends to be less expensive, averaging $4,000 to $7,000. Additional costs may include flowers, catering, or memorial keepsakes.
For more specific information on funeral costs, visit our Funeral Costs page.
Why is funeral planning important?

We often say that the best time to plan a funeral is before you need it. We really believe that. Funeral planning can ensure that your wishes or the wishes of your loved one are honored. Best of all, spelling out how you want to be memorialized can ease the emotional and financial burdens on your family members during a difficult time.
Planning allows you to make thoughtful decisions about the type of service, burial or cremation options, and other essential details. When you prepare, you ensure that everything aligns with personal values and preferences. You’ll also have time to make financial arrangements so that the expenses associated with your funeral are taken care of.
We recommend considering our After Me Planner and Organizer to get you started. We also provide detailed information on our website to give you a comprehensive understanding of what is required to make funeral arrangements. Here are links to a few pages that may be helpful.
Learn More About the After Me Planner and Organizer
More About Making Funeral Arrangements
What are the steps in planning a funeral?

Planning a funeral is similar to planning any other significant event designed to celebrate a life milestone. The key steps in planning a funeral include:
Set a Budget: Knowing how much you can comfortably spend will give you a framework for the many decisions you’ll need to make.
Decide on Disposition: Choose between burial, cremation, or other options.
Choose Service Options: Select the type of service you want. Do you want a traditional funeral, or would you prefer a memorial service and a celebration of life?
Estimate Costs: Assess the expected expenses and adjust your choices to align with your budget. Based on this, adapt your plans to align with your budget.
Communicate Your Plan: Share your decisions with family or a trusted individual.
Flesh out the ceremony details: You can specify elements like readings, music, and who will participate in the ceremony. The options you choose won’t be set in stone. In fact, we recommend that you review your plan periodically and make adjustments as your tastes change.
Arrange Financing: Explore options such as funeral insurance, trusts, or pre-purchase services.
Organize Your Personal Information: This is a crucial yet often-overlooked step. The goal is to gather and organize key documents such as wills, insurance policies, and other key information. Your family will also appreciate including information that can help with eulogies, obituaries, and genealogical records.
Our After Me Planner and Organizer is the perfect tool to help you manage all steps of the funeral planning process. Learn more about organizing for your next of kin with After Me.
If you are planning a funeral for someone else, your first step will be to determine if the person left behind their own set of instructions. That will give you a starting point.
What financial help is available for funeral expenses?

Thinking about your own mortality or having someone close to you can be overwhelming. When you add the stress of figuring out how to pay for it, the burden feels even heavier.
Unfortunately, funerals are expensive. There are several ways to get help, but it’s always best to ensure you have set aside funds to cover it. It’s always a good idea to ask the funeral home if they are familiar with any available resources. Some other options include:
- Life insurance policies that cover funeral costs. Insurance works best when you plan ahead, as there is paperwork to complete and premiums to pay. There are various types of policies, so be sure to research which one is best suited for you. See our page on funeral and burial insurance.
- Veterans’ benefits for eligible service members. While these may not cover the complete cost, some programs can help with a significant portion. For the most up-to-date information, check with the Veterans Administration.
- Social Security (a one-time death benefit of $255 for qualifying survivors). Social security payment on death is a minimal amount. If you are entitled to this benefit, be sure to take advantage of it.
- State or county assistance programs for low-income families. Every state has different programs, so it may take some research to determine what is available in your specific area.
- Charitable organizations such as churches and social groups. If you are a member of a group, you may be eligible to apply for financial help. Availability varies widely, so you will need to do some homework.
- Crowdfunding and Social Networks.
- It’s always a good idea to ask the funeral home about available resources.
Read more about getting help paying for a funeral.
What should I do right away when someone dies?

When someone dies, the initial steps depend on the circumstances of the death, including the location and manner in which it occurred. If the death happens at home and the person was under medical care, contact their doctor or hospice nurse so they can officially pronounce the death. If it was unexpected or there was no medical professional involved, call 911 so emergency personnel can assess the situation.
Once the death is legally confirmed, you’ll need to choose a funeral home or mortuary to take the person into their care. If your loved one had made arrangements in advance or has documented their wishes, locate those papers. They can save you from having to guess what your loved one would have wanted.
The next step is to notify close family and friends. You will also need to handle practical matters such as securing the home, caring for pets, and gathering important documents.
It’s okay to ask for help. There’s a lot to manage, and you don’t have to do it all alone. Take things one step at a time, lean on others for support. Remember, while there are legal and logistical tasks to handle, taking time to process your emotions is just as important.
For more details, visit our page on Making Funeral Arrangements.
Final Thoughts on Questions About Funeral Planning
It’s challenging to comprehend the complexity of planning a funeral. The best way to avoid issues that may arise is by planning ahead. We think the best way to do that is with our After Me Planner and Organizer but there are other ways to go about it. The important thing is to get started. You can find more information about the topics discussed in this article on our website. We plan to address more of your questions in upcoming articles in our Forums and newsletter. You can also email us directly at support@funeralwise.com.
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